- spreading lies about or posting embarrassing photos of someone on social media
- sending hurtful messages or threats via messaging platforms
- impersonating someone and sending mean messages to others on their behalf.How does the victim feel during Cyberbullying?
- feelings of isolation and fear. poor concentration. depression. decreased self-esteem and confidence.
- Anxiety and feelings of worthlessness. Avoiding talking to friends or socializing with others.
Social Media Safety Tips
- Never give other people password information.
- Dont post address, telephone number or school location online.
- Use strong privacy settings, so only friends and family can see posts.
- Be careful when clicking on links, and dont click links from unknown people.
- Use strong passwords and change them regularly.
- Dont respond to abusive posts.
- Keep Your Privacy Settings on.
- Be careful about what you share. Dont reveal sensitive personal information ie: home address, financial information, phone number. The more you post the easier it is to have your identity stolen.
How you can help a victim of Cyberbullying
It is extremely difficult to control messages, photos, and videos that are circulating electronically. 87% of todays youth have witnessed some form of cyberbullying. Cyberbullying victims are going to be in dire need of emotional support and reassurance. They need to know that by confiding in an adult or any authority figure, they are doing the right thing.
- Respond sensitively, not rapidly. What parents do not often realize is that if they behave recklessly, they will make things worse for their children. A lot of cyberbullying includes marginalizing others (put down and excluded), which the bully claims increases his or her power or status. If you answer publicly or if the peers of your child find out about even a discreet meeting with school officials, marginalization can get worse, which is why it needs to be well thought through in every response.